Clueless On How To Attract Women?
Im sure if you’re like most men reading this, you maybe have always wondered about how to attract women. If you’re anything like me, I’m sure you have encountered your fair share of women in your life, whom you really liked or were infatuated with. The only thing though is these women had absolutely no feelings of reciprocity towards you and felt zero attraction for you, and I’m sure you feel its quite unfortunate.
What about being initially successful and actually dating a nice woman whom you were so really into and were doing great, but, over time, for whatever reason, her interest in you was dwindling down by the day until she finally decided to stop calling or receiving your calls or just outright dumped you?
If you’ve never been the victim of the above mentioned scenarios, I’m sure you’ve experienced this one: You have a girl whom you happen to always be good friends with and enjoy hanging out and shooting the breeze. It just so happens though that your own feelings toward her happen to change from just friendship to wanting something more out of your relationship. You just so happen to relate this to her and what is her response? “Maybe we should just stay friends” or “I really like you, but just as a friend”. It can get real awkward for you two after this exchange cant it?
You constantly discover beauty and the beast couples in your community that have great relationships and wonder how the hell can these beastly guys get all these hot beauties, but you have no luck whatsoever? They’re surely are not more irresistible than you nor do they have more relationship skills, do they? Men all over the world are contemplating the exact same thoughts daily and are constantly looking for an answer to this puzzling quandary. Not knowing the answer is bad for your mental health.
The fact of the matter is if you want to attract women you must know how to trigger the powerful human emotion that resides with in us all: Attraction.
You can potentially be the biggest doofus in the world but if you know to work on and trigger this almighty emotion time and time again, there’s no question that you will be having success rates that tower over other men when it comes to the dating department. It’ll be like using the powerful linux when all the other hopeless guys are still using windows ’95.
In order to do this, Im about to guide and show you just a few of the errors most men make when they are working on attracting women and the ways on how to avoid them. Don your reading cap and read on. Soaking in all this info, you will soon no doubt become worthy enough to be my apprentice. Read thoroughly and review this article with great care.
METHOD 1: Embrace Confidence
If you want to attract the kind of female you desire, this cannot be overstated nearly enough. This is one of my secret golden dating tips. Women are drawn to confidence the same way bees are drawn to honey. That’s the truth. Not being confident is definitely a sign of weakness that they want no parts of.
You must project the image of the strong alpha male and have confidence seeping out of every one of your pores. You must not think in your mind for a second that this girl will not find you attractive and it will be an easy pickup for you. You must think just the opposite. You must have the feeling inside you that all girls like you…… they just don’t know it yet. When you are approaching her, never get nervous and think that she will reject you, and you will go much farther than you think.
To exude this strong confidence, you must know where to start, and that is in the eyes. Always look a women dead in her eyes when you are trying to talk to her and engage her.
The eyes are the windows to the soul and you want to do your best to connect to this woman’s inner soul. Do not find yourself looking all around the room and everywhere else but her eyes because this sort of body language will send a red flag up right away that you are not confident and she will be able to pick up on it immediately.
What you must do is look passionately into her eyes and try to create a true bond between the two of you while in the midst of deep conversation. Show her that you are really interested in her 100% and let her feel like she’s the only woman in the room. This sort of engagement behavior will separate you from the crowd of unsuccessful men and will boost her attraction to you significantly.
Some are even known to grasp her hand while they talk to her. This is a form of light seduction and you’ll find definitely a cool way to play the game. Body contact along with eye contact makes for a super strong connection. This initial bit of work will go far in the greater scheme of things.
METHOD 2: Being Average Doesn’t Win Much if At All
Its a proven fact just like the sky is blue: Women have absolutely no love for an average guy. The same way you are into muscle cars that are far from average like Lamborghinis and Rolls Royce’s, this is the same way she feels about her men. She wants a man whom is a rare find and very hard to get her hands on. Im sorry but these are the rules.
You got to understand that beautiful women are ogled over and harassed by men all day every day. Because of this, the average joe wont get that far with her when he tries to approach her and make her acquaintance.
The one piece of dating advice that I’ve got to give you here is to not follow the crowd of unsuccessful men. Be different. One sure fire way you can be different is this:
ACT LIKE SHES JUST ANOTHER PRETTY FACE IN THE CROWD.
This will put you in control and will allow you to meet women you never thought you could. Heed my advice here. If by chance you happen to meet up with her, let her know through your actions that she’s just another girl in the pack to you. Don’t let her feel like she’s above and beyond you. You must learn to project the image of a man who has many, many options when it comes to beautiful women and that she’s just another one of them, and far from the only one.
Based on this projection of you, she may think that you are very hard to get or something very special to have so many options when it comes to beautiful women. She might not know exactly what to think and this will raise many questions in her mind. Play it by the books on this one and I’m sure you’ll be more than impressed with the results.
METHOD 3: Withhold Giving Them To Much Attention If Any
TREAT HER LIKE SHES NOTHING SPECIAL.
This is the mantra that you must embrace if you are looking to get over the hump on how to attract women. It is an important piece of information. Beautiful women are so used to men whom break their backs and spend alot of money to give them everything they desire and ask for and appeal to their every whim that they almost get tired of it. Most people wouldn’t think this is way things work in the real world but you’d be truly surprised.
If you act the total opposite of all the men she’s used to dealing with, you will definitely confuse her and have her wondering why you don’t treat her like all the other men she deals with. She wont be used to this sort of behavior and she’s never dealt with it ever before.
You are once again establishing the fact that you are not an average dude and she may not physically show it, but trust me, she definitely likes this.
METHOD 4: Be Challenging
Now when it comes to this part of the program, a lot of guys are not too keen on how to do this. This is one of those real tips and techniques that can give you real power and surely take you far if you know how to execute it correctly.
See, in addition to not giving them a whole lot of attention and making them feel like they’re just another fish in the sea, you want to demonstrate that you are a bit of a challenge. Tease her a bit, make fun of her a little. Now understand what I’m saying here and understand clear:
Im not instructing you to be insulting or disrespectful. Some guys have taken this too far and have gotten punched in the eye or kicked in the penis and they more than regret it.
You must be somewhat playful and funny when you tease and make fun of her. Make sure you do this exactly! This will make for an interesting dynamic and she may not know for sure if you really and truly are that into her, and chances are she may very well chase you instead of you chasing her. You’ll be amazed at the results you get when you try this.
METHOD 5: Women Want What Other Women Want
This is one of those secrets that I’m surprised more men just don’t know. It isn’t hard to tell that a woman will find you a lot more desirable and be more attracted to you if she sees or thinks other women desire you just as much. They love to realize that they aren’t the only person chasing you.
If you in reality don’t have a whole harem of women, Its still easy to play on this especially if both of you are meeting in a social setting such as the nightclub, or bar.
All you have to do is make sure you chat up a lot of women inside the club, and while you do it, make it your business that she can see that you are talking to them. There’s no way she can tell if you really know them or are friends with them or not.
What this does will give the impression that alot of women are into you and you really do have a lot of options to choose from. You automatically become the better man for her to put her focus into instead of all the other dudes who constantly sweat her, and this is what women want from men. Trust me when I tell you this works alot more than it fails.
METHOD 6: Don’t Worry About The Outcome
If you want to make sure you’re going to be getting the most bang for your buck and want to come away as someone who’s a true winner who possibly ends up having alot of sex, the best thing you can do is to take your mind off of the final outcome.
If you go the club with your boys and go out of your way to try to bring a girl home tonight and make her your new girlfriend, you may be setting yourself up for failure if things don’t turn out exactly like that.
Your main intent should be to just have fun. This way you aren’t dealing with any unnecessary pressures and are open to whatever may happen during the course of the night. Your inner Don Juan might come out without you even realizing it. It might just turn out a hot girl approaches you on the dance floor and decides to get real sexual with you and whispers in your ear she’d like to make a naughty video or set of videos with you with some funky Carlos Santana music playing in the background.
If you just focus on having fun, everything else wont even matter. Her and a bunch of other hot girls may just end up trying to get your number.
If you take everything I’ve laid out in this and the rest of my articles to heart, you may very well soon be on my level when it comes down to how to attract women. You may not transform into David De Angelo over night, but with practice and effort, you could possibly turn into David Deangelo Jr and definitely triple, if at the very least, double your dating, and truly become the alpha man you always dreamed of.
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Well you certainly have some good information there and have done your homework on women, although from a woman’s perspective we may not agree with absolutely everything there…but I like your post anyway…it is positive which is refreshing. I can see though this applies mainly to Western women and I think there are some subtle differences when we change cultures….Well done and awesome stuff I will come back again…Angella.